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Aug102010Tags: accessories, bargains, fashion, malls, outfit of the day, people, shopping, street fashion, vintageAbout a month ago when I resigned from full-time work, my cousin Naomi insisted we go out shopping on a weekday. She was in the same boat as I am, and wanted to take advantage of the fact that we could hit the mall while the rest of the shopping populace were still slaving away at their offices. We dubbed such trips as our “Liberation Day”.
So, seeing that my sister was nearing her own last day at work, we dragged her along during one of these trips and I thought to bring them to Mega Mall and see Forever 21. I was there the morning it opened to the public, and while it was unexpectedly chaotic, once inside, I could see what the fuss was all about. You could easily see clothes that were like Topshop, Mango, Zara and Promod for a less expensive price. And it was huge. It took over the space that Cinderella used to have there.

That fateful first day
That first day, I was shocked that so many people were lined up outside, and there were major security going on (I thought they looked like bouncers). There were many students there–and I overheard them talking numerous times–who had cut classes just to check out the store. There were probably more than a handful office workers in there, too, who probably made use of their 15-minute morning breaks. I know some people who actually filed vacation leaves. I was there at 10AM sharp, as I didn’t catch Forever 21′s tweet that they’d be opening at 9AM, 1 hour earlier than the mall supposedly. Still, I was hardly near the frontlines. And all I wanted was just to buy this pair of shoes! They didn’t even have my size when I got there. Anyhow, you’ve probably all read about the chaos in many other fashion blogs a month ago, so I’ll spare you the horrendous pics I took of the long lines outside.
With its immense popularity here, though, not to mention its affordable prices that rivals SM Department store finds, my friend Camy and I wondered if just about everyone will be dressed head to toe in Forever 21. It will take major styling skills to look different from the rest of the herd. Thankfully, Forever 21 has a pretty quick turnover of stocks. 2 weeks after my first visit, I could hardly recognize the clothes there. I can’t remember seeing this one, for example:

I’m in a very girly, romantic, flowery mood nowadays, which is why I’m always eyeing dresses. And lacy things like this skirt:

If you’re curious, I didn’t leave with either of them. I ended up buying a white lace skirt that I just picked up from a rack and didn’t even try on.

And this one…was the outfit I came with. Haha! The skirt was from a previous ukay jaunt.
My sister and cousin ended up buying a few things in Forever 21, but the former claimed she was unimpressed with the selection of clothes there. I suppose we just have very different tastes, and high street as well as lots of layering, which you can do with almost everything in that store, appeal to me. What my sister did have fun with, was when I dragged her along my Quiapo-Cubao trip for accessories and ukay-ukay.
I usually buy my stuff from Wellmanson’s, Quiapo. It’s located at Villalobos street, adjacent Quiapo church. It was my sister’s first time there, and she was overwhelmed with the numerous, cheap and pretty abubots there. Pardon the crappy pics taken with my Palm TREO:

Looking over the rows of jewelry

Beads!

I’m the bangles person, really. I hoard Wellmanson’s bangles. But I just made my sister pose there. Haha!
Some of the things I bought:

In a store where you can buy a lot of the most interesting accessories for under P50, this is very expensive. Except for a necklace watch I bought, this was the costliest item in my basket. But I couldn’t resist, it was so pretty and would go well with the other feminine, romantic junk I’ve accumulated recently.
A lot of cute earrings that I hardly wear because I’m not an earrings person anymore, really…but I couldn’t help it, they were so cute! Friends would think they were fitting of me, too, since anything that involves food and eating, I’m the first person they think of.


A cute, bronze, vintage bike pair of earrings. I want to go back and buy the other designs. I remember seeing headphones, a radio and an electric guitar.

I always go to Cubao after Quiapo. After stuffing our face at Ma Mon Luk, Quiapo, we rode the LRT to hop off Farmer’s Market, through Gateway Mall, and finally, getting to Fashion DeLite–the ukay of choice for that day. My overall haul: 4 skirts, 3 earrings, 1 bracelet, 4 necklaces and 2 rings.
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15 Responses to “When the going gets tough, the tough goes shopping”
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Haven’t been to Wellmanson in 8 mos! I usually go there when I need to stock on raw materials for bazaar season, which is coincidentally next month, LOL. Oh boy, I remember the days I used to go there even when it was pouring! Que horror. I miss you Alex and your hair
hahaha…that’s what I also thought when I was about to buy a dress at F21…the idea of becoming like the rest of the herd really stopped me from taking out my ATM! hahaha
Kira – woah, I never shop in Quiapo if I think it’s gonna rain, haha! Also, my hair and I will see you soon!
Lynx – I suppose it’s safe to get different pieces you can layer as well as mix and match in Forever 21 so there’s no chance of bumping into clones. Sometimes even their accessories look similar to the ones I spot in Quiapo, which is cheaper.
I agree! The accessories in F21 are sometimes just overpriced as you can find similar ones in Quiapo. Then again, sometimes it’s a question of convenience, as not a lot of people would want to trek to Quiapo because it’s so dirty there :p
Well that’s true. Sometimes I do that, even if I know there’s a cheaper alternative, if I really don’t have the energy to brave the streets of Quiapo. xD I just think of it as paying for the convenience of it all, haha.
I’ve only been to a Quiapo ukay once back in my college days, and I didn’t know better then. =/ Now, with my work 7 business, I hardly have time to shop for a day. Sigh.
Love your hair, Alex. Super “karakter!” =)
Dang – thanks! I suppose my unruly hair days do make it look like my hair has lots of character. I have diva hair hahaha!
Not naman super unimpressed. I just find their clothes expensive. LOL! I was happier in Quiapo. Me cheap like dut.
my gosh!!!! i miss ukay ukay back there!!! so much better than retail forever 21! although, the store really carry some affordable knock offs!
yay for shopping sprees!
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Hi Libys! Is there no counterpart for ukay where you are? Some cool vintage/thrift store?
I’ve always wanted to know what thrift stores outside the country look like.
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nice finds!
I thought Wellmanson is in Divisoria hehe
Same kami ng sister mo walang maa type an sa Forever 21 hehe More like wala din magkasya sa akin haha
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MrsM
I saw two different girls wearing the same owl pendant from F21 while I was walking around High Street the other day. Just glad I didn’t buy that one. Lol.
Ok, so how do I get to Wellmanson’s?
I really like the food-oriented earrings, especially the cookbook ones! It feeds my recent obsession with cooking. Hehe. Fun post! I also like the dreamy pink dress…
MrsMartinez – maybe they do have a stall in Divi, I wouldn’t be surprised if they did!
Mara – Villalobos St. in Quiapo has rows of stores for accessories but Wellmanson’s is the best! It’s on the right side of the street if you come from Quiapo church direction, you have to look closely for it. I’ll try to provide a map next time, hihi!
Aggie – oh then I should buy you some on my next Quiapo adventure
Hi, please check out our website at http://www.beadsandfindings.com.ph. You might like to order some of our items. We are located in Cebu. We are similar to Wellmanson store in Quiapo. Thanks